My fellow ‘Bar aspirant’ make una no vex na because of me them broke shame us today 🙏🏾😭😭 make una no vex say I put una for talk oo. God go do our own Mercedes so we go fit paint too 😭🙏🏾
That thread of married men sharing their marriage experiences. 🥴
80% of the replies are about financial struggles, & theyre blaming their wives for "bringing bad luck" instead of seeing that Nigeria's economy is the primary reason.
One person even said his wife is a corper. You people clearly don’t knw the value of a two-income household.
You'll intentionally target young girls with no jobs while you're earning peanuts yourself, then turn around & complain about financial hardship after marriage.
You want a patriarchal lifestyle on a ₦150,000 salary? Better marry your agemate & build together by pooling resources.
Everyone wants to work at a top-tier firm, but there simply aren't enough seats. Sitting at home saying "there are no jobs" because BigLaw didn't call is a trap.
Small and medium firms will give you the raw, hands-on experience you actually need.
To survive in this market, you have to know yourself. Pick your lane Corporate or Litigation and master it.
Most importantly: Teach yourself. The school won't teach you everything. The most valuable skills I use today are entirely self-taught. Start where you are.