If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and you're still repeating mistakes, you can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The past is actually the present if you haven't changed.
Sis, Until you date a provider man, you won't understand how much men love to PROVIDE for their woman. The right man will be willing to do anything for you & understand you without asking for anything. Stop asking for bare minimum. The right one won't let you beg for ANYTHING !!