Taking a Journey to Become what I Desire, I have a need to submit&surrender control. Hope to serve again 1 day..Avi/background pics are of me. _Asha_ on Fetlife
Gentle reminder that punishments are not mandatory in D/s dynamics, and heck, even rules are not mandatory.
There is no single way to do any of this - just do what's right for you.
The simple act of asking, “May I kiss you?” encompasses so much.
This one little sentence:
🟣 Requests verbal consent
🟣 Builds tension, which can be hot 🔥
🟣 Shows respect
🟣 Shows genuine interest
Two related thoughts that I think need repeating:
1) Online D/s dynamics are just as valid as in-person ones. They're different, but they're still valid. And before anyone spits out their wheatiepuffs at me: would you say a non-sexual dynamic is less valid than a sexual one?
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So, Doms who use "going no contact" as a punishment for your subs: Why? Doesn't that deprive you of what you want as well?
Subs who agree to it: Why do you want it as a punishment? Don't you need the support of your Dom?
Please RT for a wider audience!
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Kinky discussion time!
There's a lot of strong feelings around the use of "going no contact" as a punishment - meaning the sub can't talk to their Dom for hours, sometimes days. Lots of people say they'd never suggest or agree to it, but I'm curious about those who do.
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I can’t decide if I’d enjoy the moans more than I’d miss the feeling of you grinding yourself down on my thigh. When you angle yourself downwards to get the angle just right. And of course, the wetness you leave behind…
Nah. If anyone is getting denied, it’s not going to be me.