the universe will softly tell you that something isn’t a good fit for you. people, places, ideologies, careers, social circles. It will gradually turn up the volume until you hear it. eventually, if you still continue to refuse to listen it will violently remove you.
i stayed longer than i should’ve because part of me thought patience would turn effort into love. it doesn’t. it just teaches people what you’re willing to tolerate.
All relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.