between showings at our current place and our upcoming move, the cat will be spending a lot of time at her grandparents, so i decided she needed an overnight bag for her things
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" felt this to the core.
There’s an episode of SpongeBob where he starts crying because he doesn’t want to be an adult anymore and just wants his grandma to make him cookies… that’s exactly how I feel right now.
my therapist told me, "stop assuming people are mad at you. Stop attempting to read people's minds. stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others. let people be in charge of themselves. if they have something to say to you they will and if they don't it is their responsibility not yours. overthinking kills happiness" and that hit me like a brick.
People don’t think cats are as affectionate as dogs if they’ve never been a cat’s person. If a cat imprints on you, they follow you from room to room and sleep with you at night and sit on or near you at all times. My cats are my little shadows. Wherever I am, my cats are (unless someone they don’t know is in my apartment which is extremely rare).
You have to earn a cat’s love, but once you have it, you have it completely. You become their safe space and they will go out of their way to be near you even if they aren’t always on top of you. Their love is more lowkey and independent. The purest love I’ve ever known. I love my babies with my entire soul