@Elfg1rI I’m sorry to hear that. What a world where we can’t be who we are. You be you. There are people out there that will support you - find those people and gather positive energy from them. Fuck the others who don’t support you.
@LifesConfessed You are very responsive to communication Kat but many others are not. They advertise but often do not respond for days or at all. Why bother advertising if someone sincere is trying to reach you?
@AlitaleeLee No. Balanced had many meanings.
When someone has a "balanced view," it means they are objective. They look at a situation from multiple angles, weigh the pros and cons, and make a decision based on facts rather than getting carried away by pure emotion or bias.
@AlitaleeLee It’s selfish as well as tiring. Anything one sided gets old. I have had friends that require a lot of Mntc and giving. These friendships never last. Neither do relationships that are 1 sided.
@AlitaleeLee That’s ok as long as it’s acceptable to you. It can be tiring to be the giver. I know this as I am a giver and rarely get my needs taken care of.
@AlitaleeLee You need to find a stable BF who understands, accepts, and helps to ground you when you are going through rough times. Sometimes opposites attract for a reason.