@antivatic @fervordoggo @Shaded_Rabbit Imo, DarvoDoggos big wall of text only highlights their abuser red flags.
Plus, how you gonna respond tl/dr but expect people to sort thru your contextless dump of pictures and messages? Weird and Sad.
I'm the Scribble from the document, and this guy is a huge piece of shit.
@bobrichardsson@essencebydaniel @HouseOfBLKWD Literally open you up to miscommunication as a concept, versus disagreement. You're stating feelings as facts, and they're saying feelings aren't facts.
That insight is spot on — and here's why:
Men aren’t less emotional.
They’re just taught to process emotions differently.
From a young age, boys are often told:
“Don’t cry.”
“Man up.”
“Get over it.”
So instead of feeling sadness, disappointment, fear —
they internalize it.
They convert it.
And often, it comes out as anger, withdrawal, or control.
But here’s the kicker:
Instead of recognizing those as feelings, many men treat them as truth.
"I'm angry — so you must’ve disrespected me."
"I'm anxious — so something must be wrong with this relationship."
"I feel disconnected — so I need space, not a conversation."
They don’t say “I’m feeling this way.”
They say “This is how it is.”
It’s not that men are cold or detached.
It’s that they were never given the tools — or permission — to sit with emotion, name it, and separate it from fact.
And that’s the real work.
Not becoming more emotional —
but learning how to own the emotion without becoming it.
@Rattfood Is it okay to say I like the art, but the artist is a bit of a fuck? I got plenty of examples of that in my life. Wish I could say "Nah, this fucks art was always bad" but, can't, au contraire
Hey Ratboy, what is radicalized squared? Like, I was already radicalized, but at this point, exponents are involved and shit. You're fucking with the three missed meals.