Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff

On a scale of 1-10, we help marriages go to an 11

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

( learn more at https://t.co/0S0QQLNF7J ). It’s good to be able to laugh at yourself, and to laugh at your spouse - as long as there’s relational equity!
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[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

Laughter is the best medicine! We have been seriously busy this year… our schedule has been filled with writing our book, hosting live marriage conferences, creating courses & curriculum, conducting three separate 12-week marriage intensives, & lots of filming/recording.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

Sometimes, it feels overwhelming and exhausting, but then something unexpected sparks a moment of deep belly laughter… like when Sean’s brain stops cooperating, as seen in this video shoot for a new ad we’re creating for an upcoming Marriage Breakthrough Live event.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

@DrHenryCloud Absolutely true… a compelling sense of urgency in doing the next right thing!

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

#11Marriage #SeanAndMendy #MarriageBreakthroughLive #Marriage

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

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[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

Excited to share our new logo and rebrand for what’s been our big focus for the past 5 years! On a scale of 1-10, we help marriages go to an 11.
#11Marriage #SeanAndMendy #NewProfilePic

[Chad Stutzman @chadstutzman]

Signs of spiritual maturity:
Humility
Quick to listen
Slow to speak
Slow to become angry
Generous
Grateful attitude
Deep love for God
Love all people
No Partiality
Takes personal responsibility
Forgive others
Admits mistakes
Asks for forgiveness

[Dr. Henry Cloud @DrHenryCloud]

1. Understanding - Do we truly "get" each other?
2. Motive - Are we each acting with good intentions?
3. Capacity - Do we believe the other person can follow through?
4. Character - Do they demonstrate honesty and integrity?
5. Track Record - What has our experience with each other been so far?

When these elements are strong, we feel safe to be vulnerable. We're willing to open up, share our true thoughts and feelings, and give others the benefit of the doubt. We have confidence that even if there's a misstep, we can recover and repair together.

But there's a paradox here. While we build trust through kindness and compassion, we can lose trust by never saying no. If we're always capitulating to please others, our yes loses its meaning. Healthy boundaries, where we can honestly express our limits, make our yes trustworthy again. People know where we stand.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

@danmartell More relevant than words can describe!

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

@DrBarbaraEAK We ordered ours and can’t wait to dig in!!

[Neve 🌷 @naturallyneve]

Marriage doesn’t take two. It takes three.

The husband.
The wife.
And Jesus in the center.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

@thehappyhustle It was great hanging out and learning from everyone! Thanks for sharing your wisdom (and laughter) with us!! @thehappyhustle

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

Learning when and how to say “no” is a superpower!

[Dr. Henry Cloud @DrHenryCloud]

You can’t control how many hours are in a day — but you can control how you show up in them.
Your energy rises and falls with your physical, emotional, and mental health. That’s why it matters what (and who) you say yes to.
Say yes to the things that refuel you — exercise, rest, meaningful connection. And say no to the things that drain you: toxic people, overcommitment, or habits that wear you down.
When you learn to manage your energy, you get your focus and purpose back.

If you need help managing your time in a way that prioritizes your mental well-being and helps you establish your intentional yes, check out https://t.co/fhNMp0YDee.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

@DrBarbaraEAK Maintaining deep connection through the difficult circumstances of life is challenging but necessary!

[Barbara Eaton @DrBarbaraEAK]

Unpopular opinion: Marriages fall apart when couples stop facing challenges together.

Shared adventures create vulnerability, improved communication, and the kind of memories that form unbreakable bonds.

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

We had a ton of fun appearing on the “Unspoken with Nick & Nick” podcast!

https://t.co/eloVhDpS1L

[First15 @first15]

April 28 2025 Devotional: God the Giver of Comfort - God the Giver
Everything he gives us satisfies, transforms, and leads us to abundant life.

Read the full devotional: https://t.co/qNjmOPAVXP
#dailydevotional

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

"The real test of intelligence is the degree to which you you are willing to non-conform in order to do the right thing."

— @shaneparrish

[Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff @SeanAndMendy]

Sean uses the preflight safety talk to describe why you need to first fill your own cup... In the event of a drop in cabin pressure, you must put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others. It is the same with self-care. You are not selfish when you address your own nee