dear black gay man, you’re allowed to want a husband, a quiet home and a love you don’t have to keep recovering from.
there is nothing unrealistic about wanting to be loved well.
Maybe it’s my neurodivergence, but I prefer complete honesty. Let me down, call me out, tell me how you feel. I can handle an uncomfortable truth. What I struggle with is being kept in the dark because someone decided for me that I couldn’t handle it.