I take full responsibility when I am wrong. But I will not apologize for how I react when you humiliate, disrespect, and deliberately provoke me. You don't get to do both. There's a tactic that doesn't get talked about enough. They push. They poke. They chip away at your dignity with little digs, public embarrassments, and deliberate provocations — and then the moment you respond, suddenly you're the problem. Suddenly you're "too emotional.Suddenly your reaction becomes the entire story and everything they did to trigger it conveniently disappears. That's not an accident. That's a strategy. Reactive abuse is real. And it works because good people feel guilty for finally snapping after being endlessly patient. They count on your conscience. They count on you apologizing for breaking when they spent weeks trying to break you. Your response was never the issue. The behavior that caused it was.
If you’re in a relationship, you need to understand 99% of media you see is trying to convince you to hate your significant other. If you cannot handle this and stay grounded, log off. There’s always a constant stream of anti-family, spousal resentment propaganda. Men need women and women need men. That’s it.
things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"
@Bunny_ngl Hot water on an empty stomach feels like your organs got a polite morning wake up call.
Not like coffee acting like a drill sargeant.
Not energy drink combat.
Just warm h2o sliding in like:
“Everybody relax. We’re just opening the building.”