@23_rahulr By cautioning and standing against that wrong system, women don’t become evil or any less. Just call spade a spade. No doubt that women have been suppressed, I have similar experiences. But by calling them sociopaths and moving on, u don’t know what ur silently empowering!
@23_rahulr It’s amazing that u’ve stood against the system that broke women’s souls. But what you’re missing is that fake cases filed by women, murders by girls along with their boyfriends etc - this is also the start of a new system where it can go terribly wrong for generations of men.
@aaraynsh I get your point but u must have asked him politely to remove. I am assuming u did and he declined. If not, ur post is really tangential. Definitely one should not pick a fight but even if basic efforts are not put, what is the point of pushing this fear driven consciousness?
Arranged marriages work.
Love marriages work.
All kinds of marriages work.
Yes, Siya Goyal happened and yes, Twisha Sharma happened. But you don’t realize how numerous we are.
For every dead Ketan Agarwal, there’s a gazillion alive-and-happy husbands with a non-filmy but beyond fulfilling marriage.
For every dead Twisha Sharma, there’s a gazillion alive-and-happy wives whose husbands love them to the proverbial moon and back.
Don’t let incels of either side delude you with the picture of doom and gloom. Romance is not a finite resource.
Let there be MGTOWs, let there be cat ladies, let there be DINKS, SINKS, whatever...but do know that marriage is a wonderful institution. Family is a gift. And the world isn’t dying.
@karmalogy108 These folks are either bitter about their own life or may have bad experiences with astrologers. So they dismiss whole Shastra, despite knowing that there will be a sincere bunch adhering to the rules of shastra and helping many folks. Waste of time Anna to engage with them!
life is so, so beautiful. i stay in the house and it’s beautiful. i go outside, it’s beautiful. i stay by myself for months on end and it’s beautiful. i meet friends and colleagues and it’s beautiful. just a 10/10 experience all over. the absolutely bearable lightness of being
Aditya Sharma’s father is on X pleading for help finding his son.
Not a statistic. Not “collateral.”
He is talking about his SON.
Three Indian seafarers are missing after a reported U.S. Navy missile strike on M/T Settebello off Oman. 21 Indians were rescued. 3 REMAIN missing.
So answer the questions:
Why and who authorized the strike on a civilian vessel ?
Were Indian civilians identified onboard?
What warnings were given?
What rescue was launched?
The U.S. government cannot put civilians in danger and hide behind the word “precision.”
Find Aditya Sharma.
Find Suresh Patnala.
Find Shiv Anand Chorasiya.
CIVILIAN lives are NOT collateral damage in your stupid geopolitical game.
My grandfather once told me that his parents gave a room on rent to a muslim couple with 2 children.
Initially, everything was fine. But three years later, that muslim woman had given birth to three more children. The husband started sleeping on terrace with his elder son. It was almost like encroachment.
So, my great grandfather advised the muslim man to leave their house and shift to a bigger place.
Just few days later, the muslim man filed a case and claimed that he is the original owner of the house and my great grandparents were living as tenants. Other muslim neighbours were presented as witness.
My great grandparents won the case after four years. And since then he maintained the distance from Abduls for the rest of his life and taught his son (i.e. my grandfather) this mantra "Puncture Putram, Kabhi Naa Mitram" and my grandfather has passed this invaluable knowledge to us.
So, when Abduls tell stories about not getting a flat on rent in societies mainly having Hindus, I only laugh at their stories. And I wonder, why don't muslims go to muslim areas if they want to rent a house??
Women feel things harder. Not just in the body. In the mind, in the heart, in places that take years to heal. That's not a weakness. It's just how it is when you're the one holding the whole family together.
Long back, the danger was simple. Invaders, swords, abduction. You could see it. So our ancestors built walls around their women. Strict ones. People love to mock that today. But those walls are the reason we're still here at all. We should've been wiped out. We weren't.
The problem is, a wall you never take down stops being safety. It becomes a cage. And wanting out of that cage was fair. That part was right.
But here's the thing nobody wants to say. The war didn't stop. It just changed shape.
Earlier it came with a sword. Now it comes through the phone in your hand. A reel, a movie, a 100s small messages every day. Don't settle down. Don't tie yourself to anyone. Don't have kids. Just enjoy, scroll, repeat.
So the want for freedom got twisted. Earlier independence meant you could stand on your own. Now it's being sold as needing nobody, ever. That's not freedom. It just looks like it.
And funny thing is, the people selling this are wrecking their own homes too. But it hurts us more. Because here the fire to break free was already burning hot, and they just poured oil on it.
We came out of a war we could see, and walked into one we can't. The old one you fought with walls. This one you only fight by seeing it for what it is.
That's all. Just think about it.
Let me say one thing clearly before anything else. Women should study. There is no debate in my heart about that. An educated woman is a woman with choices, and choices are her right.
So when people ask why fewer children are being born in India today, I do not blame women. I want to be honest about where the real weight of this sits.
Yes, the cost of living has risen. To raise a child well now you need money, good healthcare, schooling, security. All of this is real, and it presses on every young couple.
But underneath the economics there is something older.
For hundreds of years, maybe longer, our society dominated and suppressed women. We took them for granted.
That suppression did not simply vanish. It settled into the muscle memory of generations.
And what is held down for too long comes back, in our time, as friction. Some call it ego. I would call it the natural recoil of people who were kept small for too long.
Think of the man who earns while his wife does not, and who says, “I feed you, so you will listen to me.”
He does not see her as his partner. He sees her as someone who owes him obedience.
That is the wound.
And a woman who has felt it, or watched her mother feel it, will naturally want to stand on her own feet so no one can ever speak to her that way again. Who can blame her?