My friend was raped by two of his cousins when he was younger, severally.
Both men are now married. Recently, he met them at a relative’s funeral and told them, “I remember.”
They apologized. These men are straight btw.
Child abuse is real, but labels are dangerous. Not every man is a predator - gay or straight.
Hold abusers accountable. Leave labels out of it.
The biggest lesson I’ve learnt as a gay man is that just because I find a guy hot doesn’t necessarily mean I have to sleep with him…I can just observe, appreciate & move on
Dear gay men,
Please, let’s dead that conversion talk. “He was straight and I converted him.” You sound dumb AF. Sexuality is not religion that allows for conversion. If a man isn’t gay, then he isn’t gay. No matter what you do, you cannot make him gay.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
to the queers who are privileged enough to have an easier life in this unfair world: do well to assist others who are struggling in whatever way you can, whether through job opportunities or anything else that would make their lives more livable.
that’s the purpose of a community
My dick wasn’t always this good. I’ve had some great and patient bottoms walk me through the gradual insert, pull, push deeper, repeat, and then let it rest in the walls while they adjust. Respect the bodies that you fuck, Tops. That jackhammer shit isn’t everybody’s thing