I didn’t avoid having children just to fetch someone with a child. I’m not at a stage where I want children in my life, even if it’s by proxy. And when I eventually choose to have them, it should be because I’m ready, not because my partner came with them and I have no choice.
@CallMeZanny_ The temptation to speak about on other HOD, ayyyyy yeeeey. Anithi umuntu athule a gaze axoshwe... That HOD was so affiliated and connected even HPCSA wise