@zanyfen Yes. You simply stop grasping/clinging at conditioned things. It’s Buddhism101. Any chance you looked into Buddhist scripture on the “unconditioned”?
@DaCoffeeChicory Carmela gave her mother shit for being a self-hating social climber and yet, she’s one herself. See how she was flustered when it turns out Skankarelli made it to med school
@judithslutler69@FeistyKittyPie Is it the role of the man in a relationship to allow room for her to use him as a conduit to reenact the psychodrama with her father? I am trying to figure out who, ultimately, has to "give in" so the other can work out their baggage