nothing you do for me financially will ever amount to how you take care of me mentally & emotionally. the way you show up for me. loving me in MY love language(s). doing the little things. reciprocating the effort/energy I give. being a kind person. worth more than money.
The old saying goes “do the best you can” but someone forgot to tell us, that some days “our best” is waking up, taking a shower, not crying, not sleeping all day, having positive thoughts, answering the phone, smiling, or simply just showing up, and that’s ok. Hang in there❤️
flirting is cheating. linking up and hiding it from ur s/o is cheating. messaging others behind your s/o back is cheating. once you start deleting shit or putting stuff on DND its still cheating. Moral of the story it don’t got to be physical.
you disrespect ur self when u beg someone for bare minimum things. like affection, attention, love, support, reciprocation, etc. don’t be doing that shit. know ur worth at all times. take a step back & fall back. always return the same energy that u are given. never do too much.
i don't know who needs to hear this but normalize moving on silently when someone doesn't want you. you don't need to send them long paragraphs and beg them to see your worth. let them lose you and find out once you're gone what they lost.