LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant

Sex | BDSM | Intimacy Growth Coach | Expand your Sexual Mindset

Understand sexuality through self & Relationships. Enjoy Sexuality

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[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Sex | BDSM & Intimacy advice.

SexConsulting has always been A passion. I want to share my Knowledge & Experience. As a Professional Dominatrix, Woman & PowerHouse I want to spread my Wisdom. I Dominate Men,Women &Others,Let me teach you What I've learned

#sexcoach #kinkeducator

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Building up to BDSM

Start small & work your way to the extremes. Try warm wax then fire. Cotton rope bondage to suspension. Restraints to toys. Pain to Pleasure takes time. You might be Mentally ready but your body isn't ready for the shock yet.

#bdsmmentor #bdsmadvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

A Fun Game!

You and Your Partner(s) all get naked. Take a non Permanent Marker or edible paint and Mark your arousal spots. Touch, Lick, Stroke all parts of their body.

Its great Foreplay, Builds Communication and its just Fun.

#intimacy #relationshipadivice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Everything Smells You need to Realize your Smell

Men and Women sweat around our private areas. Clean it regularly especially if you masturbate. It builds up bacteria. Unless your into that kind of thing, then have at it. Otherwise Rinse and repeat

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Positions
You may have seen something in porn or a movie that looks arousing but that doesn't mean your body can do it. Your legs,back, neck, etc might not bend that way. Stretch and try yoga.

Sex is Exercise

#sexcoach #relationshipadvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

There Is No Normal when it comes to sex.
Most people don't answer honestly when asked about Sexual Fantasies. 9/10 someone else has been thinking about trying the same kink. Find your people, you are not alone

#bdsmmentor #relationshipadvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Never Just jump into BDSM.
Being Mentally ready and Being Physically ready are different. Learn your body's pain Tolerance level and build on that.

#intimacy #relationshipadvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Porn

PAY FOR IT! Trust me. Your orgasm is scratching an itch, scrolling the backpages. If you connect to a creator you get more from it.

Your porn searches are not unique,don't be ashamed of it. We've all watched something off the wall & it was hot

Masturbate! Know your Body

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Abusers/Predators/Cults in the BDSM Community
-A Domme wants you to see your friends/family, a Predator doesn't
-They perform scenes/Marks, etc, you did't agree to stating "It was right in the moment"
-Barely 20,& approach you about joining their "Family" Explore yourself first.

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Anal Sex takes preparation. 1.Cleanliness. Cleaning yourself is the most respectful thing you can do unless planned Scat, Waterplay, etc, has been negotiated. 2. Prep. Get different sizes and prepare your openings. 3. Switch things up. Surprise your partner(s) with something new.

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Change Locations. Sex in bed is nice but you have other chances. Give head when they put a load of laundry in, Surprise! Tease them at a red light. Kiss their neck while your waiting in line. Small things to get them going helps. Sex is not a routine

#RelationshipAdvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Take a night as Partner(s) & just touch eachother, Look at eachother. Lights On! This is not foreplay. Get to know your Partner(s) Body. Find a new freckle, a mole, See the shape of their thighs or which leg is longer. Learn eachother. Get Comfortable.

Appreciate Their Nakedness

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

If Your to Scared to talk about STD's STI's etc, with your partner(s) then you shouldn't be intimate. You either trust them with your body or you don't

#sexeducation #intimacycoach #RelationshipAdvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

The key to good Sex. Lube and Communication . Lube up your vocal cords and tell your partner(s) What you really like.

No matter how "shamefully" you think it is. If they care, they'll listen. And compromise if needed. And lube up! Lube is gold

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Most People think BDSM & Sex go together. But BDSM isn't always about sex. It can be about gaining power, releasing power, trust, connection, or feeling something you might have never felt before. BDSM like Sex is about being open to possibilities

#Relationshipadvice #advice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Don't wait to try something you've always been curious about. That desire to try will build and manifest into something Ugly. Resentment. Resentment to whoever is holding you back. You, Your Family, Your Partner(s), etc

Just Try. Research. Express yourself

#RelationshipAdvice

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

This sounds strange but it really isn't. Schedule time in your day or week for sexual activity. Charging Batteries, changing the sheets, setting the mood. Hell even Stretching. It builds intimacy, adrenaline, and could be really good foreplay.

#relationshipcoach #sextherapy

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

The best thing about seeing a Dominatrix who is Also a Sex Coach is that nothing will surprise me.I've had a client ask me to drop him underwater in a bodybag,Water Submersion. Cannibalism is a fetish. I will not be shocked or Disgusted. I've seen so much

#relationshipcoach

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@SexCoachMidwest You might like this podcast where I interview a psych relationship researcher about indicators of good and bad relationships.

https://t.co/ldO6ZlS4g7

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Not everyone has a support system,or the sexual knowledge, etc. to "Come out" to the world. You really don't have to. You need to be honest with yourself & the rest will follow. If you believe you are apart of the LGBTQIA community seek information, Guidance

#imLGBTQandproud

[LadyDominaByte |Sex |BDSM & Intimacy Consultant @SexCoachMidwest]

Try Oral instead.

When you find yourself finding time for intercourse Try oral. Takes half the time, leads to great foreplay & for women leads to more orgasms.
This way you can still have a good time together when things outside the bedroom get so chaotic

#relationshipcoach