@OwenJones84 It's just so clearly homophobia? I feel very sorry for a (nominally) closeted man having a sex life.
Was it the smartest thing? No.
Unless there's details that have yet to come out this is all just a bit tragic.
@Philippa_Perry More importantly, why didn't you ask a Dementia charity for advice before printing this?
You usually ask for advice from other psychotherapists. What bias stopped you getting advice on this one?
@Philippa_Perry It's lying and coercement - cruel even - to tell him it's a "holiday". If he's setting fire to his kitchen it sounds like a home is a good option, but tell him honestly