Sexualista Coach

Pleasure coach | Confidence, connection & pleasure 💋
Helping everyone to communicate desire & own their intimacy ✨

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People will judge regardless but guess what if they don’t cater the three f’s their opinion does indeed not matter 😌

You will start living a freer and more full filled life once you cancel the noise.

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Sometimes it’s not the timing.

Sometimes the person simply isn’t capable of giving you what you need.

And accepting that can hurt less than spending years waiting for them to become someone they’re not.

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Please check in with yourself from time to time too 🙏🏻🧡

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THIS MIGHT BE WHY YOU KEEP CHOOSING THE SAME PEOPLE over and over again.

Maybe that’s the reason you keep choosing the same people.

Sometimes you’re attracted to what feels familiar.

And familiar doesn’t automatically mean right or good.

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READ THIS IF YOU’RE ALWAYS OVERTHINKING

Sometimes your brain is trying to protect you from something that isn’t actually happening or already happened and it mistakes this for something from the past.

Pause.

Breathe.

Ask yourself:

“Am I just making something up?”

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You keep waiting to feel confident before you make the change.

But confidence usually comes after you start choosing yourself.

Do it scared.

Do it imperfectly.

Stop waiting for permission.

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You’re allowed to outgrow the version of yourself that everyone else became comfortable with and toon advantage of.

You’re allowed to want different things.

Set different boundaries.

Become harder to manipulate.

And choose a life that actually feels like yours 🙏🏻

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You can have incredible chemistry with someone…

and still be completely incompatible.

Butterflies aren’t always a green flag.

Sometimes they’re your nervous system screaming:

“This feels familiar.” 👀 and not in a good way

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Drop a 🐚 in the comments if you agree!

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What is your body telling you?

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How would that change everything?
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Hot take: the sexiest thing you can do isn’t finding the right partner.

It’s learning yourself first.

Because when you know your body, communicate your needs, and stop settling for “good enough,” everything changes.

Kinda chic, if you ask me. 🧡

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Everything else grows from there. 🤍

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You need to stop pretending you’re okay with the one you have.

Because “it’s fine” has killed more desire than routine ever could.

The moment you start being honest about what you crave, everything changes.

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You’ve just been taught to perform instead of feeling.

Nobody taught you how to ask for what you want.

How to slow down.
How to receive.
How to stop pretending.

The best lovers aren’t the most experienced.
They’re the most connected.

And that changes everything.

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My relationship with my sexuality changed
the moment I stopped seeing it as something to fix…
and started seeing it as something to explore.

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Unpopular opinion:

You don’t need to be “more open” or “more experienced” to be sexually confident.

You just need to be honest about what you actually want and enjoy what you’re doing.

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What gets you into the mood? 🍆
Wine, the Gym, your SO doing little things for you, finishing all your chores, or is it even spontaneous? 😏

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What is something you always wanted to share with your SO & what's holding you back so far?