Saw a mans post that said “Y'all can keep the girls that wanna go 50/50. l like mine showing me hauls of what she bought with my card” and all I can say is, may that type of man find me!
I’m not crying… Y’ALL are 😭🥹 First thing I see on TikTok is a girl who moved in with her friend for 6 months just to get her life together. Friend told her rent was $350, she paid $400 anyway.
When it was time to move out… the friend handed her ALL $2,400 BACK 😭 and said she never needed the money, it was just to help her SAVE and go handle her business.
MY GOD 🥹 THIS is what love looks like. THIS is grace. THIS is being human.
I survive Ghana by preparing most of the things I eat at home, things you pay premium for outside! Half a box of broiler chicken wings is ¢250. I'm definitely not paying ¢150 for five pieces just because the place has disco lights and AC. I can create better environment at home!
Don’t let anyone gaslight you into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It's not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.
Burnout is real! I’m learning it’s okay to sit on the couch & binge watch a show. It’s okay to not fold those clothes today. It’s okay to not have it all figured out at this point. No one is perfect. Life gets messy. It’s okay to take a moment for yourself.