I am so excited to announce I finally have my very own Chastity belt 😍 and I'm in love ❤️
Thank you so much @FancysteelCB for starting me on my chastity journey 🥰 to many more locked days ahead xxx
One of the biggest misunderstandings in BDSM, even inside the community, is this:
People confuse Foundations with Dynamics.
Foundations are non-negotiable.
Same as any other relationship:
Respect
Communication
Care
Trust
Reciprocity
Dynamics are where you can go wild: degradation, CNC, TPE, extreme play… whatever you both genuinely consent to, and that makes you feel good, bringing you pleasure, peace, fulfilment or connection.
You can want to be treated like shit inside the dynamic…
but overall it should still leave you feeling safe and valued.
That’s the line between healthy kink and abuse.