I saw a post that said "I feel like I'm constantly worrying about the next part of my life without realizing that I'm right in the middle of what l used to look forward to" & I felt that.
i think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this and only thinking about others.