Shane Bitney Crone

LGBTQIA advocate, writer, and speaker. 🌈

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

The irony isn’t lost on me seeing members of the LGBT community distancing themselves from the very movement that fought for decades to secure their rights. Some call themselves the “normal gays” now, seemingly forgetting that “normal” was a hard-won victory, not a starting point. This privilege of feeling “normal” exists precisely because previous generations of LGBTQ+ activists refused to be silent.

Let’s be clear: This isn’t about partisan politics—it’s about recognizing real threats to our community. Just as Roe v. Wade was overturned, Obergefell v. Hodges could face similar challenges from a conservative-packed Supreme Court. These aren’t hypotheticals; they’re possibilities rooted in recent precedent.

What’s particularly striking is how some members of our community seem to have forgotten that the freedoms they now take for granted—the right to marry, to live openly, to exist without fear—were secured through collective struggle. Every “normal” day they enjoy is built on the foundation of those who were proudly, unapologetically “abnormal” in their pursuit of equality.

To those feeling confused or betrayed by this division within our community: Remember that those pushing us to be quieter, less visible, and more “normal” are reading from the same script that kept us in the closet for generations. True acceptance doesn’t come with conditions. It doesn’t require us to tone ourselves down or separate ourselves from our trans siblings and other members of our community.

As Harvey Milk said, “Hope will never be silent.” Neither should we be—especially not when our rights and our unity as a community are at stake. We didn’t get this far by being quiet, and we won’t protect our progress by being quiet now.

To those who’ve stepped away from the community: When the allies you’ve chosen show their true colors—as history suggests they will—know that your community will still be here. Because that’s what community means: standing together, even when it’s difficult, even when it’s uncomfortable, even when it would be easier to look away.

The strength of the LGBTQ+ movement has always been in its diversity and its refusal to leave anyone behind. That’s not a weakness to be ashamed of—it’s a power to be proud of.

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

I’m genuinely curious—are you aware that the president-elect has openly stated his intent to appoint Supreme Court justices who would seek to revoke the federally protected marriage rights you currently enjoy? I’m trying to understand the reasoning behind supporting someone who, while perhaps personally accepting of LGB individuals, surrounds himself with administration members actively working to roll back LGBTQ+ rights and protections.

The Republican Party has consistently opposed LGBTQ+ rights, from blocking marriage equality to denying same-sex couples equal protections under the law. If the president-elect appoints more conservative justices, potentially putting federal marriage equality at risk, will you commit to actively advocating for the restoration of these rights and using your platform to address this critical issue?

With a sincere desire to understand, I wonder: why do so many in the LGBTQ+ community choose to support a political party whose policies and actions often undermine our rights and humanity, treating us as less than equal?

@GayRepublicSwag @ScottPresler @JarrodRodrigue1

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

In honor of #Pride & #BlackLivesMatter, I want to recommend an amazing doc on @netflix called “The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson.” Marsha was an integral part of the Stonewall Uprising, paving the way for the Pride celebration we know and love today. https://t.co/wDqjkY2yiT

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

“We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.”

- James Baldwin

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

.@RayvonOwen always says I don’t post enough...

This morning, he said: “A selfie or two once in awhile won’t kill you.” 😂

Sending love to everyone! Hope you’re having a wonderful summer! 😊❤️

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[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

As promised, here is my story of reconnection, one I thought would never happen. So glad I was able to partner with @Verizon & @PFLAG to encourage reconnection. If you want to learn more about PFLAG: https://t.co/BJG0wiiAqk #ConnectedByPride

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Today’s episode with @adamlambert, @MamaBearOk, @ShaneBitney and @RayvonOwen was not only funny but it was also so moving! If you missed it don’t worry, it’s live on our YouTube channel now: https://t.co/r297q1SMK2

[RuPaul Show @RuPaulShow]

Tomorrow on #RuPaulShow we have @adamlambert and motivational stories from Parker Cunningham, @MamaBearOk @RayvonOwen and @ShaneBitney

[rayvon @RayvonOwen]

MONDAY... ♥️ #rupaulshow

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

I'm proud to partner with @Verizon and @PFLAG to let people know that it’s never too late to call back. Check out this beautiful and emotional film about reconnection. I'll be sharing my own reconnection story next week. ❤️ Learn more on https://t.co/k9RLHCGCA0 #ConnectedByPride

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

I have been working on some projects about which I am beyond excited and have found that for me personally, it’s best to take a step away from social media and devote myself entirely to what I’m working on. Sending love to all of you! 💙

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

Thinking of Tom today, and reflecting on the last eight years since he passed. I’ll forever be grateful that so many of you got to know him and witness the extraordinary soul he is, was and, forever will be. 💙

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

I have been taking a break from social media these past few months but I appreciate those of you who have reached out to check in with me. I am good!

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

I am so proud and humbled to be part of this amazing, beautiful project. Here’s to a future world in which love is unconditional, parents fully accept their children, and LGBTQ people can accept themselves. Please watch and share. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[Shannon Beveridge @nowthisisliving]

Just Say I Love You https://t.co/BLMm61dBVk

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

Love wins in India today!!! 🏳️‍🌈 #EqualLoveEqualRights #LoveIsLove #LoveIsLouder #LoveWins #NOH8

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

@natalieeemartin @verizon @RayMcHale @sbutcher84 @Aquaryan1972 @HorseBoy28 @cindogg88 @Jon_girl88 @DavidU @Whitney49256405 @LeenaRegan @TatCarrier: I’m so happy y’all like the video! Have you joined the digital Pride parade yet??? 😀🏳️‍🌈 https://t.co/tw5k9tx7F6 #ConnectedByPride

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

Happy Pride month is right!!! I know a lot of you don’t live close to a pride parade, so I’ve teamed up with @Verizon to bring you the first ever digital parade so we can march together. Join me here: https://t.co/tw5k9tOJ3G #ConnectedByPride

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

Hope everyone is having a fantastic Pride month! https://t.co/DElNxQ71pL
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[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

@Daughtrylicious @Daughtrylicious, @RayMcHale, @AngelaCEverhar3, @Mhampton789, @Whitney49256405 Thank you so, so much for your support! I’ll let you know how the walk goes! ❤️

[Shane Bitney Crone @ShaneBitney]

On 6/16 I’m doing an overnight walk in Philadelphia to raise money for the American Foundation For Suicide Prevention. To raise money for this incredible organization I’ve decided to sell 100 signed Bridegroom DVDs. 100% of the proceeds go to the cause! 💙
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