being mad at someone is okay, disliking them is fine too.. but making up lies to destroy their name, their character because you need attention is a mental disorder.
making out with someone you've been craving for so long while your hands are roaming all over their body and all you can do is breathlessly whine as they repeat "i need you" is top tier
We are incredibly unfair to men when it comes to communication. We will act completely fine, tell him "nothing is wrong," and then punish him for the next three days because he didn't magically read our minds and fix the problem we lied about. Then we run to the group chat and complain that he "lacks emotional intelligence." Expecting a man to be psychic isn't a standard; it's just emotional manipulation.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Men can't manage to be friends with women without ending up developing feelings... but, somehow, they can be in a whole relationship with a woman without feeling a thing.
I saw a TikTok where a girl say for years her man paid all the bills so she could go to school and take care of the kids. Now she a Registered nurse at 25 and her man goes to school for engineering while she takes care of the bills. Do what works for your home!!!
i once ghosted a guy in my head before he ever ghosted me. we were talking every day. good morning texts. inside jokes. the whole “this could be something” energy. then one week he got busy. replies got slower. not dry. just… delayed.
my brain said: here it comes.
so instead of asking, i matched the energy. took longer to reply. stopped double texting. acted unbothered. told my friends “i’m not even that into him anyway.” (lie.)
a few days later he sends, “did i do something? you’ve been distant.”
turns out his mom had been in the hospital. he didn’t want to dump it on me because he thought we were still “casual.” meanwhile i was rehearsing my “men ain’t sh*t” monologue over something that wasn’t about me at all.
the worst part? i almost sabotaged something gentle because i was trying to beat him to the punch.
sometimes my trust issues don’t look like suspicion.
they look like self-defense… activated too early.
Emotionally mature people are incredibly attractive.
I once met someone who never raised their voice when upset. No silent treatment. Just calm conversations and genuine listening. Even in frustration, they chose respect. That kind of maturity is rare & truly attractive.