I’ve been getting a lot of questions from my non-Black friends about how to be a better ally to Black people. I suggest unlearning and relearning through literature as just one good jumping off point, and have broken up my anti-racist reading list into sections:
I do want to like this sentiment… really I do bc we all need rest & balance.
But this is also just such a white man thing to say. You absolutely should be taking accountability for mistakes & learning from them. Forgetting mistakes w/o any consequences is a gross privilege.
You wanna break a generational curse? Give your kids the right to tell you when something you're doing is hurting them, without being defensive or dismissive.
the ADHD urge to turn a small task into an overly-ambitious project, only to get so overwhelmed/intimidated by the massive undertaking that you abandon it and never return
Trauma was not being
able to get the hands
of the clock off of me.
Healing was learning
no one has ever laid a fingerprint
on the part of me that’s infinite.
The greatest part of the world is connecting w/ people who give you an opportunity to self-reflect & grow. Many years after my first experiences w/ poly relationships & after many years of internal work, I’m revisiting it from a healthier, kinder place. https://t.co/4pk5EQyHw4