@cooldamxbone I dont know why we are all feigning ignorance. You will see someone’s lifestyle, befriend them and then be shocked that they have no values when they betray you.
You see that personality trait called ‘Integrity’, don’t even try to compromising on it when choosing a spouse.
If you do, anything your eye see, take am like that.
Nothing beats being able to sleep well at night, knowing your spouse doesn’t have side chicks/bfs.