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@TonyRobbins Very true when both people operate from that mentality. In other words, the mutual submission of each toward the other, creating together a space they both love being a part of. The doesn't work in isolation, because it becomes one person over-functioning.
When the "peace" is actually only the lack of noise, it's a delusion. And no one can feel truly known and loved within a delusion. There must be an authentic conversation... which might mean some noise and conflict. The question becomes "What works?"
Do you shut down your inner voice to keep the "peace" and go along to get along? At some point, that tactic will fail you. Are you trying anything different to stay healthy AND get along?
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May you begin to see yourself as Christ sees you. May you understand--on a whole new level--what you mean to Him! May your awareness of His presence grow with each passing day. May your unveiled face reflect His glory in ever increasing measures as you walk intimately with Him.
There is a difference between hurt and harm. Like a good stretch, growth can hurt — it pulls, it challenges, it asks more of you. But it’s building toward strength.
Harm is different. Harm tears. Harm injures. Harm leaves you limping long after the moment has passed.
If you’re heartsore but moving, it was growth. If you’re wounded and stuck, it may have been harm.
Pay attention to the difference. Name it. Address it appropriately. Your healing depends on it.
Picture this 👉 You’re going on a first date. You slowly become more nervous, less authentic, and overly concerned with making a good impression. Why? Often, it’s because you’re not relating to the real person sitting across from you, but to an idealized version of them you’ve created in your mind, imbuing them with the power to judge your worth — a power they don’t actually possess.
Now, consider how you might approach the relationship differently with this new awareness.
The most effective battle strategy to combat the fear of the unknown is trusting God who is known to be true and faithful.
Nothing tests our trust like fear. But we don’t have to get lost in the shadows of uncertainty. We can remember that where God is, good is being worked.
The peace of our souls does not have to rise and fall with unpredictable people or situations. Our feelings will shift. People do affect us. But the peace of our souls can be tethered to all that God is. We can let His Word wrap around our souls with steady assurance.
When you get triggered, it does not mean your decision to forgive was fake. It just means there’s more to be done.
Forgiveness is both a decision and a process. And healing takes time.
So give yourself some grace, friend, and keep moving forward.
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