Sharon Israel

Abba’s Pasture Girl 🌿 | Christian Creative | Mediator (AICMC), LLB | Championing Faith, Identity & Wholeness

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Usually, people say, ‘when you meet bad times think and be grateful for the good times’ Yes it’s good but Lets explore some unusual things to be grateful for.🤗
Starts tomorrow
Stay tuned…..😉
#gratitude #grateful #healing #gratitudeseries

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

It doesn’t really take much to be a support system, in fact, for me it takes the little lest of things to be a support system.
Check out for my TikTok for the rap up video of this series
#specialseries
#julyseries
#beasupportsystemtoday

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Who can be a support system e.g;
•Spouses
•Parents
E.g father’s to daughters
•Children
•Friends

A lot of people don’t know that they are support systems to people and they also don’t know who they are to support So yes I’m here to tell you
#beasupportsystemtoday

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

What or who is a support system,
A support system is someone who ;
•Loves you
•Believes in you
•Pushes you
•Endures (Stays with you through it all, Listens to your everytalk)
#specialseries
#julyseries
#beasupportsystemtoday

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

What exactly is support
Support in simple terms means;
To help, to assist, etc
It can be done in so many ways,
Financially, emotionally, and otherwise.
#specialseries
#julyseries
#beasupportsystemtoday

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 10, this is the last effect for this series. The Fear of marriage is the most expected effect that these children have.
SO: Be mindful of how you talk, your actions and how you treat your partner, you never know, it might change someone's view on marriage.

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/b6ImCc2JtC

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 9 points at self love, there is a very high tendency of them doubting themselves. Since they were not really shown what love is from home, it affects them so don't know they are supposed to love themselves first
SO: love yourself because you can't give what you don't have.

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/6yEmQ36VRI

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 8 is one of the paramount effects, it mostly occurs under the physical category of toxicity. Here the child encures alot of physical injuries that leave scars on them. It could be directly or indirectly done by their parents.
SO: Just leave the toxic environment

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/83AovTmHMa

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 7 speaks about trust, it is a big word for them in almost all of their relationships, they saw how ineffective the word was to their parents that supposedly used it.
The way out of this is to trust God like The girl, he leads you to a safe ground to lean on
SO: Trust God

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/bJm8gwRZuQ

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 6 just telkes you that it takes alot to see a normal child from a toxic marriage, it's an error to expect them to react normal to every situation because alot of things have been altered psychologically
SO: Be prayerful and take psychological issues more seriously.

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/Rou6NlTDHD

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 5 Simply says that they are always ready for you even when you are not ready for them. They do not trust you and judge people alot from their experience. It takes prayer and consistent calm approach to correct this effect.
SO: Be calm and patient in your approach to them

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/5b3lvnqFFI

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 4 is one of the basic effects, they are holding grudges against their parents or other people involved. The best way out of this effect is prayer and a walk with the Holy Spirit (this cannot be over emphasized)
SO: instead of forcing, help them through the daily journey

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Just posted a photo @ Abia state University Umuahia Campus https://t.co/9jdB104tWd

[Sharon Israel @SharonIsrael13]

Effect 3 is about the mental unstability of the children from a toxic marriage. This simply means the inability to cope with stress and anxiety etc. Most parents are quite lax about this effect at a very young age of the child.
So: nip this effect at the bud before it gets bad.