Your entire life will change the day you start living on your own terms without wanting to impress others.
Being real to oneself is one of the highest forms of freedom.
Salam,
Today 23/06/2026, MaxAir flight VM2014 departed Jeddah to Gusau @ 14:10hrs with 149 Zamfara Pilgrims and 28 Officials.
Total Airlifts = 38,052
Total Flights = 97
The departure of this flight signifies the completion of the 2026 Hajj inbound operations, bringing to a
Yeah, men as providers, that’s how it is supposed to be. However, that is not a guarantee of receiving full respect from women. I mean, some women disrespect their husbands even when they do not contribute financially
On the other hand, there are women who contribute even more than their husbands, yet they do not disrespect or look down on them
What I’m essentially saying is that respect is not necessarily tied to women being completely dependent.
Women should have a say in family matters regardless of what they contribute or do not contribute. They should also respect their husbands even if they contribute financially.
Yes, men are encouraged to take full responsibility for their families. Every man should wish that. But there’s absolutely nothing wrong with your partner contributing, depending on the condition. And that doesn’t make you less of a man
I believe the sharing of responsibilities (where it happens) emerges naturally from the family’s real circumstances rather than just gender issues.
Q2. I want kids. Jamila wanted marriage. I felt that having a kid with her would be enough cuz I didn’t want to marry her. I don’t have nothing against her. I just didn’t see her as my ride-or-die. So I told her I’ll give you a son or I’ll give you a daughter but I’m not giving you a ring. Take it or leave it. She left me alone. I got over it and I’m in a relationship now with a woman who is pregnant. My cousin told me Jamila is married and she posted a whole bunch of wedding pictures. I didn’t like Jamila enough to wanna be her husband, but when I saw the pics my heart stopped. I can’t stop thinking about her and I don’t know why. I’m ignoring my pregnant girlfriend because I’m stalking Jamila. I’m ashamed of it. I don’t know why I’m doing it. I wish I could stop but I think I just want closure. I want to know why did she leave me for that guy? How do I get her to give me closure? That’s what I need to know. #SBCCHAT