In hindsight giving my dad access to my Facebook so he could shop on marketplace might not have been the best idea… my marketplace is basically a Ritchie bros auction at this point🤦🏼♀️
Narcissists will constantly project their flaws and mistakes, and misunderstand you to keep you in a perpetual state of having to defend and explain yourself. Letting go of your need to be understood by them or make them listen to you is how you take your power back.
When a narcissist treats you terribly and makes you feel small, the first step in separating yourself from them is to recognize that there is something wrong with them, not you. Good people don’t spend their time abusing others and trying to break them.