From now on, i'm going to start telling people "you're committed to
misunderstanding me & i don't care to explain myself to you," instead of over explaining myself
People lack accountability, then say, โYou could've talked to me.โ No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument rather than to understand.
Just a reminder if youโre still dating in your 30โs please be realistic this year. People will have kids, you wonโt be their first love, youโre in like the 3rd round of the draft now, just be realistic