Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag

🏳️‍⚧️ she//faer Kinetic-Autistic Nonbinary Trans Woman. Trans is a Nonbinary Subset. Autodidact. Anarcha-Feminist.🔞🚯 “All we ever wanted was everything…”

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Honestly, it makes me really unhappy that a bunch of transphobes can just casually trample all over history and genderqueer/nonbinary people.

https://t.co/O9RmldwH4Q

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

9:22pm. Finished the *The Waves*.

Putting on a podcast, turning out the light. A single coffee come the morning. May everything go well.

Wish that much for me.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

She knows. We cried. We said all the things that needed saying.

Ok.

Time to finish my book.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

“However, we had our bottle of wine..”

She and I. And pizza by the poolside in the chill of the growing darkness past sunset. And a walk, and talking. And time enough to piece together that moment of utmost truth.

I won’t share the last text message she sent. But it was loving.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

“All that we might have been we saw; all that we had missed, and we grudged for a moment the other's claim, as children when the cake is cut, the one cake, the only cake, watch their slice diminishing.”

~ Virginia Woolf, *The Waves*

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

She’s being really sweet to me today. I mean, nothing anyone outside of her and me would “see” but, yeah.. I love just seeing her at her ease and being herself. And omg her little paper house she’s still working on.. I’ll try to get pictures.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Her son (2), sitting in pushcart: “Push me.”
My bestie: “Are you sure?”
Him: “Yes.”
Her: “Okay-ay..” ::reaches out and pushes his shoulder::

People. The look he gave her. Like “Why would you do me like that?”

Her, to me: “If you don’t tweet that..”
Me: “On it.”

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Oceans of Slumber, “Just a Day”

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Be brave, though courage threaten to fail and break asunder. Try, for as long as you can. Try. Be good. Don’t let go. Let them pry your fingers loose from your last grip, then spit at them as you fall. Your love was real. That’s what matters. Let love burn the world down.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

‘Twas a month after Christmas and all through the place
The ghost that was haunting alone bore my face..

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

@jordantyranny Also, feel free to infodump on me in DMs—if you’d like.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

“Without illusions, hard and clear as crystal, she rode at the day with her breast bared. She let its spikes pierce her.”

~ Virginia Woolf, *The Waves*

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

@jordantyranny I know of no other book that attempts what she so adeptly accomplishes in it.

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

@ERnurse86 It’s so gross. https://t.co/YXlCdHlpXj

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Dear cis men who say they care and that it matters how fucked up it is, the way women/fems are treated by cis men in general,—prove it: be an active thorn in the side of problematic cis men; agitate against them, harass them for their foul opinions, speak up, speak out,—fight! +

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

“Life is a dream surely. Our flame, the will-o’-the-wisp that dances in a few eyes is soon to be blown out and all will fade. I recalled my friends.”

~ Virginia Woolf, *The Waves*

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

There is no pass for playing the quiet saint while evil “just happens” around you. You deserve all the distrust heaped on you. You lack backbone and moral fiber. You’re a passive enabler of abuse, coercion, assault, r*pe, femicide. Stop pretending otherwise, faking integrity.🖕🏻🖕🏻

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

Dear cis men who say they care and that it matters how fucked up it is, the way women/fems are treated by cis men in general,—prove it: be an active thorn in the side of problematic cis men; agitate against them, harass them for their foul opinions, speak up, speak out,—fight! +

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

This bullshit position of “I don’t associate with guys like that”, that you hold in stoic silence like a statue of righteousness, is a dodge! Do you not think we see you there in the background pretending you’re an NPC, an innocent bystander? Fuck you, man. Silence = Violence. +

[Vespertrix 💜🤍💚 #ReclaimTheFlag @SheFaerer]

@raddidude Dude you’re so handsome, my god..

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@DoOneThingForMe Storm portent..