God is good fr.
In less than a year i managed to travel to DR, Colombia, and now Japan. Including mini trips like North Carolina and several times in Florida !
Truly a blessing to be able to travel 🫡
There is a whole generation of men out here who are absolutely exhausted from being the "transitional guy." They come into your life, absorb all the trauma your toxic ex left behind, provide stability, and love you gently. But because your brain is still addicted to chaos, you mistake his consistency for a lack of passion. You drain his peace to heal yourself, and then abandon him because there isn't enough "drama" to keep you entertained. Men are constantly being used as emotional handymen to fix damage they didn't cause, only to be discarded the second the foundation is stable. It is pure emotional vampirism.
My girl best friend told her boyfriend something that lowkey changed how I see relationships.
She said, “I don’t want obedience. I want consideration. I shouldn’t have to beg you to think about how your actions affect me.”
She told him, “You’re allowed to have friends. You’re allowed to go out. You’re allowed to live your life. But if you constantly put yourself in situations that you know would hurt me, that’s not freedom. That’s you choosing yourself over us.”
Then she said something that hit:
“If I have to keep explaining why something disrespects me, it’s not confusion. It’s comfort. You’re comfortable knowing I’ll stay.”
And whew.
She wasn’t yelling. She wasn’t threatening to leave. She was calm. Grounded. Clear.
She told him, “I won’t control you. But I will control what I tolerate. And if I start feeling small in a relationship that’s supposed to feel safe, I’ll remove myself. Not to punish you. To protect me.”
That’s what emotional maturity sounds like.
Not “do what I say.”
But “I see the red flag. I told you it’s red. If you keep walking past it, I’m not dragging you back.”
No refund policy😳🚨🚨🚨
50 Cent’s advice to Tariq has gone VIRAL.
He told the young man that anytime he feels as to buy something expensive for a woman, he should better buy something nice for himself or save that money.
Infact, as a young man who is struggling, STAY AWAY from women. Those little amounts you give to her, she will never remember or appreciate it. Save up that money and do something for yourself.
It is so difficult for a young man to get help but it’s different for a lady. Make sure you do not go around trying to impress them.
The woman you are taking care of now and breaking your bank might be someone’s future wife. There is no refund policy in a relationship🤦
Women will first self destruct before they have sense.
Two years ago, she was a married woman and a mother, but today, she's a single mother of three for Offset plus a baby mama for Stefon Diggs.
The only reason she's willing to compromise is because she has been in the streets for 2 years now and realized no matter how tough marriage can be, nothing beats having a man you can boldly call a husband.
If her baby daddy actually took her seriously, trust me when I tell you she would have shaded offset for the rest of his life, talking about how she won by leaving him.
But because she's in her 30s, and now a single mother of 4 children, she's aware no reasonable rich man is going to want to settle for her and make it his life goals to be financially responsible for other men's sperm, so her best bet will be to return back to her ex husband.
At the end of the day, she left her husband for cheating just to end up becoming a baby mama to a man with multiple baby mamas who ended up throwing her back to the streets.
Another day to remind you these female celebrities who always perceive themselves to be smart online and running their mouth faster than a tap are just as dumb as an average 18 years old girl.
The only difference between them is that one is an older FOOL who has fame and money while the other doesn't.
And mind you, a lot of women see her as a role model.
These women have seen her foolishness and how her wokeness backfired, but will they learn from it? OBVIOUSLY NOT!
Because women understand personal experience far more than learning from another woman's experience.
Never beg a woman to have sense. Leave time to teach her a personal lesson.
At the end of the day, you just have to let women self destruct.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
If you are dating men of age 25-30, who are not born with silver spoons, please offer them peace and not nag over unnecessary things, they are at the stage where they really need hustle and strategize really hard for their future which includes you. BE Their Peace of mind ✌🏽
Woman says her boyfriend nursed her for over a year after brain surgery, even cleaning her waste, but now she wants to leave him, feeling unappreciated for not being taken on a date!! 👀🤯
The fastest way to drain a man in a relationship isn’t cheating or disrespect. It’s tone. Not what you say, but how you say it. When everything sounds sharp, irritated, or disappointed, even simple conversations start feeling like failure.