A man's desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom.
But when a woman expects a comfortable life, she is somehow shamed for wanting too much.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what’s even worse? A man who pretends to be a good person, when in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
I think my biggest red flag is that i never really know how to talk about my feelings. when i'm going through something, i tendok to stop talking to everyone until i feel okay again. i have a lot of conversations with myself in my head about how i feel, and is explain it so well there - but getting it to actually come out of my mouth is so hard. once i feel okay, i'll start communicating again as if nothing happened. it's not that i'm being distant with you; i just process things better when i'm alone.
I know a guy that broke up with his gf of 3 months cause she didn’t get him anything for his birthday. He said he has experienced what it feels to have a woman spend on him and he refuses to settle for less 😭😭
-refusing to ask for help
-downplaying your achievements
-isolating yourself instead of communicating
-saying "yes" to everything
-neglecting your own needs
-avoiding important responsibilities
-flooding your mind with negativity
-always chasing perfection
A cheating nigga already foul… but the WORST type is that “good guy”nigga who be acting solid, talking right, moving patient… whole time he a whole liar behind the scenes manipulative, lust driven, and quick to flip the script like HE the one hurt when he get exposed. Them undercover ones be the most dangerous fr cause you don’t see it coming till it’s too late.