@Metro_Waves I had a professor from the US come to lecture in my school on sabbatical. He said since he arrived Nigeria he internalized the saying “don’t attribute malice to what can be explained by incompetence & don’t attribute genius to things that can be explained by luck”
Some of you are asking me why a man that wants to marry a lady must not have a big dick.
"Must not" means it's not compulsory.
If you must know, women just crave for a big dick mostly because as a fetish or fantasy.
That's not what they truly need.
A woman needs a man that can be able to take care of her, love her and provide for the needs of her children.
If you have a big dick and cannot do all those important things in her life, she'll cheat on you sometimes, or disrespect you most of the time.
Your big dick and good provision is excellent.
Your small dick and good provision is good.
Your big dick plus poor provision is F9.
AJD.
Winning Answer:
“I’m confident we can agree on a package that reflects the value and results I’ll bring to this role. Before I give a number, could you share the budgeted salary range for this position?”
Making money is one skill.
Keeping it is another.
Growing it is another.
Protecting it is another.
And eventually, turning it into enough assets that you can live without depending entirely on your labour is the ultimate goal.
Don't use your first serious money to look rich.
Use it to make sure you'll never have to start from zero again.
The goal isn't to become rich enough to afford everything you want.
The goal is to become financially strong enough that you don't need everything you want.
That's freedom.
When your assets can support your lifestyle, losing your job doesn't mean losing your life.
When your income drops, you don't immediately go into debt.
When an opportunity comes, you have capital to pursue it.
The year follows a pattern. Most people ignore It. Calendar years are not flat. They have lows and highs. Energy rises and falls in predictable cycles. Most planning ignores this completely. A quick thought experiment. When did you do your best thinking in the last year? When did your energy collapse? When did external pressures (family, financial, seasonal) make goals nearly impossible? There are almost certainly patterns there.
Marcus Aurelius didn’t write his Meditations during battle. He understood wisdom and execution require different conditions.
Commit certain months to action.
Some months are for building. Others are for accumulating. A year designed around reality outperforms “ambitious” goals you never do anything about every time. If you pay attention, you can work with the pattern, where others fight it. Do heavy thinking and big moves when energy is naturally high. Use slow periods to rest, reflect, and reset. The pattern is always there. You just have to notice it and use it.
Prayer must become a culture in every home.
There is a way to pray that leaves you defeated on arrival. Many Believers are just dissipating energy in the place of prayer without seeing the desired spiritual profit because prayer must be both fervent and effectual.
Fervent means heartfelt and effectual.
Effectual means aligned with the will of God and producing results.
Don’t just pray; learn to pray effectively.
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Eight (8) Kingdom Truths About Words:
1. Words are instruments of creation (Genesis 1: 3, John 1: 3, Colossians 1: 15-16)
2. Words are instruments of change (Ezekiel 37: 1-11)
3. Words are conveyors and revealers of thoughts and intents during conversations.
4. Words are systems of authorization and activation.
5. Words are instruments of dominion. (Daniel 3: 28-30)
6. Words are instruments of edification. (Ephesians 5: 19-20, 1 Samuel 30: 6, Colossians 3: 16, Romans 10: 17)
7. Words convey and transport our desires, our thoughts, and our needs to God in prayer. (Hosea 14: 2, Philippians 4: 6)
8. Words are spiritual seeds, they can produce harvests of honour, greatness and glory, or harvests of failure and doom.
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The things religion introduced that were clearly NOT in the BIble
1. The pastor being the Spiritual covering of members of a church.
This is a manipulative idea introduced by pastors and spiritual leaders to control the decisions and real-life choices of members rather than train members to walk with the Holy Spirit and make the choices they ought to make for their own lives, with a full conviction that God is with them or with a desire to bear the consequences if things go wrong.
2. Pastor being the fertile ground where members must sow seeds in order to prosper in life and business.
This teaching was concocted in order to manipulate members to direct a percentage of their resources to the pastor, whom they consider their spiritual source, in order for them to get the blessings of God in their individual lives and businesses.
Many believers have sold properties, given up life savings, cars, land and so on in order to be blessed by God. This then seems more like a gambling situation than having true faith in God and working in order to prosper.
3. Before you can get married, you must bring your suitor to pastor for Spiritual clearance and approval.
Pastors claim that they know their members individually and therefore can attest to their individual character and marriageability. Therefore, if a member asks you out, you must come and report the member to the pastor for guidance.
Again, this practise is not in the Bible at all.
Pastors came up with it in order to play "God" and maintain control over their members so that the tithes, seed and offering from such a member stays within the fold after the marriage and more importantly, to become familiar with the person the individual want to get married to and convince such a member not to turn their faithful parishioner (who is with the person) against them and their interest after the wedding.
4. You CAN LOSE YOUR SALVATION.
This is a classic bait-and-switch situation in which the pastor preaches salvation to the unbeliever and guarantees the unbeliever eternal salvation through their belief in Christ Jesus. Once the person has accepted Jesus Christ as lord and Saviour and received the baptism of the Holy Spirit, the tactics change to "If you do anything wrong, you will lose your salvation; therefore you must confess your sins and rededicate your life constantly in order to remain heaven worthy."
More like after subscribing to Apple Music, Netflix, Amazon Prime Video, Gmail and other services, you discover that you have to pay monthly to maintain the subscription so that the companies keep making money off you rather than let you buy your phone and keep all its features after the purchase.
It is a lie you should never fall for.
For God so loved the World that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have eternal life.
Once you give your life to Jesus, you have eternal life through your faith in Christ Jesus and this is guaranteed by the Holy Spirit.
John3:16, John 6:47, 1 John 5:11-12
Eternal life is a gift given by grace through faith, it is not earned by work.
5. People do wrong things because they have not been well taught about SIN.
Nobody needs to be taught about sin. Man by nature is a sinful being. David said In Iniquity was i shaped and sin did my mother conceive me.
The reality of human life is absolutely and without exception sinful. Even if the individual never did anything wrong in his or her life, the seed of sin was in him and therefore he or she was a sinner.
That individual was given a reprieve through the finished works of the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross so that he or she can believe in Jesus Christ and become the righteousness of God through Christ Jesus.
Once an individual gives his or her life to Jesus, he or she receives the gift of righteousness and becomes a born-again Christian
You don't need to teach him sin anymore; you need to teach him righteousness and how to live a righteous life and make right decisions as led by the Holy Spirit.
6. If you don't pay your tithe to the church you are a robber and you will not make heaven
This is a lie and there is no backing for it in the BIBLE anywhere.
God loves a cheerful giver and we are all encouraged to give willingly as led by the Holy Spirit to the work of the gospel and its advancement all over the world.
It is also true that we must not be selfish and should give that there may be meat in the house of God for the ministers and the needy; however, we give out of our abundance and from a blessed position and not out of compulsion or fear of a curse or lack.
7. In times of trial, you can stand on your tithe and pray.
This is not true. The believer has his or her being in Christ and not in any other place. For in him we live and move and have our being Acts 17:28.
Whatever we have given to the work of God or to fellow believers or the work of ministry is not a blackmail tool with which we can blackmail God to do what we want for us.
God has blessed us long before we even became believers. For while we were yet sinners Christ Jesus died for us. Romans 5: 6-8
8. If you don't live a Holy LIFE, you will not make heaven.
This is a lie.
The Pharisees and Sadducees and keepers of the law lived a HOLY LIFE according to the law, and none of them got saved or gained eternal life by it. Nicodemus was a teacher of the law, a Pharisee, and he didn't even know how to be saved. In John 3, Jesus had a long conversation with him and taught him and all of us what it means to be saved.
Verily, verily I say unto you, except a man be born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God.
Being born again is a guarantee of eternal life.
In order to walk in victory on the earth as a believer, you must be led by the Holy Spirit, and you must walk in authority and power. You cannot do this by walking in the flesh or living in a carnal reality. You must walk in the Spirit
Galatians 5:16 "So I say, walk in the Spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh"
You don't need to walk in self-righteousness or according to the law to live a Holy Life.
For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God" Romans 8:14
9. You must submit to the Authority of your Pastor in order to prosper
Your pastor has the authority of his office, within the church he leads, of which you are a member and he has the authority of the believer which Jesus gave to everyone who are saved
You have the authority of the believer, which Christ gave unto you over all things.
As long as you are a member of that church, in the things pertaining to the church and the organisation of service and programmes and services, the pastor has authority over you.
This is just so there is order in the church.
Outside of that, the pastor has no authority over you, your life or your decisions.
The pastor is not the Holy Spirit, and he is not your dream interpreter or your life guide or spiritual eyes.
He can offer training in righteousness based on his experience, divine relationships and words of counsel when you need it, but he is not "God" to you, and he cannot determine the course of your life and destiny by cursing you or steering you out of his own selfish ambition to do things that are contrary to the instructions of God for your life.
You have every right to leave his church and join another if you feel you are being manipulated by this man or woman.
10) You must be at your best behaviour before you can eat the communion
Again, how does anyone know he or she is at his best behaviour at any point in time without resorting to self-righteousness and glorifying in the flesh?
It is Christ who justifies.
Romans 8: 26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[i] have been called according to his purpose. 29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. 30 And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
When there is a communion to be had, you do not eat it according to the flesh by according to the Spirit. It is a spiritual meal meant to quicken the Holy Spirit in you and spur you on unto good works.
Not eating it because you have done something wrong in the flesh keeps your heart hardened and exposes you to spiritual weakness as you starve your spirit of the vitality of its union with Christ.
If you are of God, you will eat the communion without guilt and with a sense of total surrender to the Holy Spirit who guides you and helps you become more like Christ daily.
-GSW-
One of the bitterest lessons I have learned is that the greatest medicine rarely tastes sweet.
Pain is one of life's greatest teachers.
Learning is impossible without discomfort, and growth is impossible without learning. To reject pain is, in many ways, to reject growth itself.
Growth is not repeating yesterday more efficiently.
Growth is waking up every morning willing to become someone slightly better than the person who went to bed the night before.
It is setting new goals with every sunrise, embracing new perspectives, and finding better ways to solve tomorrow's problems.
The moment you believe you have arrived is the moment you stop moving.
Success is never a destination. It is the discipline of constant reinvention.
LIFE HACKS NOBODY TAUGHT YOU BUT SHOULD HAVE:
1. Cold water stops bleeding faster than warm.
2. Yawning cools your brain — it’s not boredom, it’s survival.
3. Humming reduces anxiety faster than deep breathing.
4. Your tongue pressed to the roof of your mouth stops a sneeze.
5. Sleeping on your left side protects your heart and aids digestion.
6. Drinking water before meals reduces overeating by 30%.
7. Walking backwards improves memory and focus — science confirmed.
8. Honey never expires — it was found edible in Egyptian tombs.
9. Chewing gum while cutting onions stops the tears.
10. A dead phone can still call 911 — no service needed.
11. Sitting up straight instantly boosts your confidence level.
12. The “20-20-20 rule” saves your eyesight — look 20 feet away every 20 mins for 20 seconds.
13. Napping 10–20 mins recharges better than an hour-long sleep.
14. Cold showers after a workout cut soreness by half.
15. Writing your worries down shrinks them — proven by research.
16. Your body heals faster when you believe it will — that’s not hope, that’s neuroscience.
One conversation changed the way I measure spiritual maturity.
I was listening to someone who knew the Bible inside out. They quoted verses effortlessly, prayed passionately, and sounded deeply spiritual.
Then the conversation shifted.
We stopped talking about church and started talking about money, success, people, and forgiveness.
That's when I realized something.
You don't really know what shapes a person's life until life takes the conversation away from church.
Anyone can sound spiritual when discussing God.
But how you think about power, respond to offense, treat people who can't help you, and make decisions under pressure reveals what truly governs your heart.
The Pharisees knew the Scriptures, yet they rejected Christ. Even Satan quoted Scripture in the wilderness.
Knowing verses isn't the goal.
Being transformed by the One the verses point to is.
The gospel doesn't just teach us what to say, it teaches us how to think.
When Christ truly rules a person's heart, you won't only hear it in their words.
You'll recognize it in the way they live.
Some of you will get ₦50m and immediately rush to buy 2016 GLE 350.
Relax.
Buy a Corolla → ₦8m
Buy 3 bank stocks → ₦15m (enjoy div)
Lock 20m at 20% APY → ₦343k monthly
Invest 7m in US stocks → ₦10m by end of year
Your future self will hug you.
School won’t teach you this. I will.
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Myth 1: Women only want men with a six-pack
Met a lady recently who said, "I will be with a man who is big at the chest area, thin at the waist and ends up at a bouncer at the club where smart guys are spending all the money.
Those who can't build their brains, build their bodies"
Physical health is immensely important, and really should have nothing to do with your relationship status.
You should take pride in maintaining a healthy body (and mind), keeping yourself active, and ensuring you live as long as possible by controlling whatever you can. A well-rounded fitness and nutrition plan should be in every single human being’s arsenal of weapons for living a good life.
Here’s the truth about how women view it, though: Many don’t actually want to be with a man who’s chest and shoulders look like a collection of rock-hard clouds.
Why not?
For one, it’s uncomfortable. Have you ever tried to cuddle with a rock? There’s no softness or finesse to it.
Secondly, it makes her feel like she needs to meet the same physical standard. To put in the same time at the gym. To be highly careful about her nutritional intake. To feel guilty about indulging in things she loves when you may be cutting.
Now, an important distinction should be made here:
In no way, shape, or form am I telling you to stop working out or give up your bodybuilding dreams just because a woman might not like it.
What I am saying is that this false perception that all women are looking for this body type is not true
She wants you to be healthy, of course. A fit body is attractive, of course. You should want to be healthy regardless of what anyone else thinks, of course…
But, don’t fall into the trap of believing that you need to look like Zeus if you want to attract a woman to your life. Most are looking for qualities far beneath the surface, anyway.
How manipulation works is simple. Someone has an idea, and he or she plants it into your mind, and you are persuaded it is a good idea to the point where you actually accept the idea as yours and act on it.
The conclusions people reach for themselves are usually the hardest to let go of.
That’s what makes persuasion so effective.
If you never noticed the moment your thinking started to change, there’s no obvious moment to question later. No point where you stop and ask, “Hang on… when did I start believing that?”
The danger isn’t agreeing with someone else’s conclusion.
It’s forgetting where your own reasoning ended and theirs began.
If a conversation leaves you unusually certain about something important, don’t rush to defend it. Say it out loud to someone who wasn’t there, or leave it alone for a day.
A little distance has a way of showing you which thoughts were yours all along.