@gooLagoonpygy I'm not talking about a dead person's wish, I'm talking about something which would be in the interests of an existing moral agent. Ask yourself, do you want your great grandchild to suffer that fate? No? There's your answer
My literal first memory is abuse I am not fully “healable” you dumb fuck my development was literally fucked up and I will never be the same due to it fuck you
@moshamash@uzuiownsmyass "Personality disorders" do not exist. It's an abusive label for fully healable trauma. All trauma and thus everyone abused with a PD diagnosis is fully healable. "Remission" is an incorrect term and a part of the abusive claims surrounding "BPD".
@MeownyLaunderin@kcwhiskey128349 Fulfilling prophecy and you’ll end up not allowing yourself to form connections, cause I mean, what would be the point when you feel they can’t be trusted? You’ve been told these things to be true by bigots and assholes because they’ve beaten it into you, you say to-
@MeownyLaunderin@kcwhiskey128349 Trying or anything, or that it isn’t hard, or difficult, or torturous, or feels pointless, I’m trying to tell you that you shouldn’t give up? If You tell yourself that “nobody will love me for me” “no one will give me a chance” and end up internalizing it it becomes a self-
@MeownyLaunderin@kcwhiskey128349 Why do you think that every job is like this? What? What’s with the black and white thinking, all that will do is harm you
Nah, it’s just assuming people are actually cis and basically rhetoric along the lines of “women are inherently stupid” and is a sexist and misogynistic term how bout he don’t invent a term for trans/NB people who are stupid
Theyfab is a term with a purpose, it is not a slur. However, in order to retain any meaning, it has to be used accurately, ie towards people who do actually cling to their ASAB and do things like "AFAB only housing". Not just. Anyone who disagrees with you.
Like if I hear you using “theyfab” fuck you and you’re an idiot you can’t use your brain to think deeply about why people use this. If my friends use that shit I’m going to tell them to fuck off and not want to talk to the