@heismric You can still have a new family bro... You are young.
Untill your ex and the kids do right by you, invest your money on yourself and new family you will start in the future.
False.
I have no control over that. She's not an item purchased from a market, for as she's capable of independent thoughts & decisions she can do all things as they please her. My biggest flex is my ability to take resounding decisions when serving consequences for her actions.