Over sharing attracts nazar. There is barakah in privacy.
In Kashmir it’s lately become normal to record intimate moments of marriage ceremonies & put it out on social media. From capturing a groom putting his bride on the loudspeaker announcing the departure of his baraat to a mother gifting her son the Quran while he offers namaz - every memory not meant to be shared is instead recorded for social media consumption.
There was a time when shadis were rooted in simplicity. Now it’s gradually being reduced to a Tamasha that violates that privacy of your own spouse, their families & your deepest private moments.
Please think twice - Privacy is power. Social media clicks and viral videos help event managers to gain traction but take away your privacy. These memories remain on Instagram, Facebook & WhatsApp forever for posterity. There is barakah in privacy. Always best to protect relationships that are closest to you. Especially as you embark on a new journey with a person who you will raise a family & spend the rest of your life with.