Our relationship is crazy. He will make me mad but soon as I depart from him I get sad. Like, man bring your ass here and stop playing with me!! I love him though
That kind of accusation is not confusion.
It is strategy.
They keep you busy proving you are not the villain so you have less space to name what they are actually doing.
And by the time you realize it, you are exhausted from defending your character instead of protecting your peace.
Some people do not accuse you because they misunderstand you.
They accuse you because your clarity threatens the story they need to survive.
Now here’s my BUT….of you’re busy entertaining others you don’t have time to make time for the one person. That time is not really needed or you just simply don’t want it!!