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[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@skertkit @UllaBurns Passive, compliant, and easy to control isn't the meaning of 'submissive' in the world of kink. Learn some stuff.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@Kristinartz I won't be any old.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@ohaijustalex Totally fair. You are right.

I just want someone who would ground me from anything.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@cutiieepie6 The size of your overstepping can't be measured. If you want your daughter to have the best of everything, start by seeing if you can improve the model of mother she got issued.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

This

[Spanking Theatre @SpankingTheatre]

A brat knows her goal is not to evade her spanking, but to achieve it in the most memorable way. Bratting is a kind of kinky improvisation, a special kind of eroticised flirting that just happens to have a well-smacked bottom at the end.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@Iam_SO2SO @luxemiaa You know how someone learns if their parents didn't teach them basic consideration for others? They act disrespectfully. They are rejected on that basis. They learn not to repeat, in future. That's it. Simple.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@jujubesono @Iam_SO2SO @luxemiaa It's not about. You. It's about how annoying it is if you've timed getting ready for a certain time, and then someone shows up early and you still need that 5 minutes to finish getting ready. Don't claim time that you haven't been given.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@justdavenow89 🙋‍♀️

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@jujubesono @Iam_SO2SO @luxemiaa Do NOT show up 5 minutes early. Not if you want to be seen as polite. Show up on time.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@Iam_SO2SO @luxemiaa Don't be ridiculous. She's looking for someone whose communication style is compatible with hers. Not looking to train someone. If relationship responsibilities are a burden to you, you shouldn't be in a relationship. You are who you are. They like it, or they don't.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@Grace1960181960 @NotAvgLiberal No one is blaming their politics FOR their stupidity. They're blaming their politics ON their stupidity.

[Will Hartley @WillHartley1980]

There’s a misunderstanding in the language.

“Slave” in kink isn’t the absence of consent.
It’s a structure built on deeper, pre-negotiated consent.

They absolutely can say no.
They absolutely have safewords.

There are zero healthy dynamics where “no” isn’t allowed.

Call it “no.”
Call it a safeword.
Call it tapping out, going quiet, pulling away.

Doesn’t matter what language you use…
there is always a stop button.

The difference is a sub negotiates as things happen.
A slave negotiates before anything ever starts.

Limits are agreed. Boundaries are clear.
And within that framework, they choose to give up control.

But that choice doesn’t disappear. It gets structured.

If someone “can’t say no” in a way that risks their safety, autonomy, or wellbeing?

That’s not a dynamic.
That’s someone removing consent from the equation.

And once consent is gone… none of the labels matter. You’re in danger.

[marqix ☆ @fwmarqix]

My brother is having his paycheck docked by his own niece.

I need you to understand just how funny this is to me.😂

It all started at a family cookout.
My brother has always been the clown of the family, pranks, jokes, the guy who thinks he’s the funniest person in any room. Sometimes he actually is.

My daughter was standing by the pool, minding her own business. She had a brand new phone in her hand and new AirPods in her ears.

My brother got that familiar mischievous look in his eyes.
She saw it immediately.
“Don’t,” she warned him, dead serious. No smile. No playfulness. Full eye contact. “Don’t.”

He picked her up anyway and threw her straight into the pool.
Phone. AirPods. Gone.
He was crying with laughter before she even hit the water.

My daughter surfaced, pushed her wet hair back, and looked at her uncle with the most terrifying calm I have ever witnessed. Then she said one sentence:
“You’re replacing these.”

My brother waved her off, still laughing. “It was just a prank! Relax.”
Rookie mistake.

She’s 19 and had just finished a business law class. Three days later, she filed in small claims court like she’d been waiting her whole life for this moment.

She won without breaking a sweat.
When he refused to pay, she went back to court.

Now a judge is garnishing my brother’s paycheck every single month until the debt is cleared.

My brother calls me weekly to complain about it.

I always put the phone on mute so he doesn’t hear me laughing.😂

Meanwhile, my daughter walks around completely unbothered with her shiny new phone and AirPods, as if nothing ever happened.

She’s only 19 years old.

I have never been more proud of anything in my entire life.💜

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@wargamingminx Did you deserve the spanking? Did it give you something you needed?

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@MarkRMyer1 @WorkElizab So - you're trying to say that you want to try to inflict further damage, and you want it to last for years? I guess now we know why she was breaking up with you in the first place.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@WorkElizab Sounds good. Thanks.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

Some men can't separate Dominance and control. Why is that, when for many in D/s relationships, the /s person *resonates* with the D/ voice and is merely endangered by the controling/disrespecting/coercive voice? If men wish for submission, why are they incapable of earning it?

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@james_xond What makes you think that there was boredom at home? We had books, we had friends, we had tv and even VCRs, then DVDs. We had games and puzzles (and mostly books). What do you think that the internet provides that can't be accessed otherwise?

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@skaamoutjie @AntiCommieBecca @iky_fwjett And I have a good feeling you're an idiot. But I have evidence.
It's people like you who give men a bad name. Muting you now.

[Shilo @Shilo2141]

@skaamoutjie @AntiCommieBecca @iky_fwjett No. They should call her a name she prefers, which is her decision, not his. He doesn't get to 'keep' anything. She clearly doesn't define herself in relation to housekeeping. He either knows that, & chose 2 disrespect her, or he doesn't,which is a whole new level of disrespect.