What's stopping you two from just saying "I'm sorry I wasn't the best version of myself.. I still loved you. I just needed to grow up a little more. we both made mistakes and we both failed..
But that doesn't mean we have to let go forever.. lets forgive each other and move forward.. I miss you and I'm sorry.
Before he left, he said: "I'm in love with the Woman you showed me in the beginning and I'm thankful for the memories we made. But I was forced to learn that in relationships, it's not about how they start, it's about what they continuously show. and I refuse to let the person you ONCE WERE be the reason I let myself keep getting hurt by the person you have become. ๐
Sis, You really did hurt him if this is you๐ข