Whoever rejects even one ayah of Qur'an is KAFIR
Even this one
An-Nisa' 4:34
اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوْنَ عَلَي النِّسَآءِ
Men are in charge of women
So Feminists who rejects this ayah are KAFIR
So a woman putting conditions like fixed pocket money, no polygamy in marriage contract is her right. But when a man puts conditions like virginity and clear past, suddenly it becomes wrong. Damn hypocrite society
@SushiReggie Pocket money is not mandatory in ISLAM
It depends on Husband's will
Only food clothes & nafqa which covers basic materials oil shampoo etc etc covers the expenses
Anything else is not mandatory
Read Fiqh
@Sitara122 Well Islam doesn't stop a man to put clauses in contract of Nikah
It's his right to put clauses in the contract, if you have clean past then you shouldn't fear that, it's just for his personal security and sanctity that his children are borne with a woman of character
@thepasta_bowl@Khatana_217 If a maid is going to take care of him then he should hire the maid & marry the maid, she can bear his baby too
Also house care is basic pillar of wedding as well if u don't trust him he can do the same & put this contract
If not
Who in sane mind would still want to marry you?
Well as far as I undrstnd from both perspctiv
U were more clear about situations & consquencs & took right steps, I see no confusion from ur side & tried to handle it well until situation started getting ugly
U were way more mature throughout
You don't deserve unreasonable heat
@Refuted786 What are you trying to say ? Where does refusing intimacy came into this talk ? It's about husbands honour & obedience which comes under nushuz & he can with withhold maintenance or can divorce on this
This is Fiqh
I can give references but first acknowledge the fiqh work
If the wife doesn't obey her husband in matter of hijab this comes under nushuz & husband has right to withhold maintenance or can divorce
Similarly Father can prevent daughter to leave house
These are final methods if nothing works
Immodesty can be stopped by final methods
I am a hijabi but I am against hijab and burqa being forced Faith is more about iqrar bil-lisan wa tasdiq bil-qalb. Forced hijab is oppression of human beings&does not change a person’s character. If it is farz, it is between the person and Allah, &Allah will decide who disobeys.
@TLand14401@Deli964@AOUREDOO How is that possible ?
khabib always fought in lightweight and
Kamru played in welterweight and middleweight how can there be any possibility of any match between them in order for kamaru to refuse fighting against khabib ??
Fatimah (RA) asking her father ﷺ for a servant actually proves the opposite of what being claimed.
If housework was a clear religious obligation, that was the moment for the Prophet ﷺ to say:
“This is your duty, you must do it.”
But he didn’t. Instead showed compassion.
Working in Mixed Gender Environment is a Mistake
It's really hard to avoid interaction without being rude
I keep it only for work related talks
But since we are in same team, Gossip happens & everybody tries to include you in the talk
I am never comfortable with this.