I literally HAD TO FIGHT MY WAY OUT OF THAT DARK SPACE IN LIFE AND I REFUSE TO LET ANYONE TAKE ME BACK!!! That goes for family, friends, relationships. I CANNOT LOSE ME ANYMORE !!!
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this big grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect doesn’t exist. Yes, your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing the victim.
Sticking to no contact really helps your self confidence. You realize there isn’t a single person you can’t live without. You had a life before they existed in it, and you’ll have one after they’re gone. Their importance was only informed by your attention.
g chicago so mfn FUNNYYYYYY 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 yall why this girl ona trip to mexico & her brother bm done snuck in her room and stole the her sex toy TWICE and used it 😭😭😭😭😭🤦🏽♂️ g yall be so laced omg. it’s her crawling on the floor tryna hide from the cameras & then proceed to lick her lips like she done found the goldmine 🤦🏽♂️😭 WHATTTTTT
I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
princess treatment isn't when he buys you expensive gifts. It's when he never lets you go to sleep upset, listens to you, is soft with you, respects you, and changes his actions when it hurts you.
At this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, I just remove myself. I’m not trying to understand you and I’m not trying to make it make sense
if they wanna talk, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don't let things be one sided. it's not healthy and it's not fair to you.
I think I’m going through a phase right now, like I’m finally coming to terms with actually letting a lot of things go…. Weather it’s friends, family, relationships, feelings, fears, just any and everything. it’s literally time for new beginnings, with new chapters that bring happiness, peace, love & good memories. it’s just time to move on with my life.
Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time & energy.