The easiest way to guarantee you’ll never get rich is to date a girl who says you work too much.
That’s not your soulmate. She’s a lifestyle liability.
While you’re trying to build an empire and focus on your goals, your girl wants to go out to fancy dinners, vacations, and force you to watch brain rot reality TV with her every night.
You’re trying to build a high performance lifestyle and she’s trying to build her Pinterest board.
NGMI.
If you say the wrong thing to your crush, no worries. It was an experiment.
If you fumble during a sales call, it was an experiment.
If you miss the penalty shot, it was an experiment.
You get the idea..
You can gain more self compassion by learning to see things as an experiment.
Then if you fail, you can remind yourself that experiments are by definition supposed to fail instead of calling yourself dumb.