I dgn partner bincang, i also talk to him i kesian dia kerja siang malam, he also work dgn i bila free. I mentioned this but he insist! He love me, hantaran is on him. He such a responsible man i even known. That’s why i cakap, hantaran ni small matters je bila that man wants u
Minta pendapat ayah pasal
“NO HANTARAN”
Ayah kata “Biarlah seorang lelaki tu rasa susah payah nak kumpul duit hantaran, mcm ayah susah payah besarkan anak ayah. Lelaki ni benda yg senang dapat mmg dia susah nak hargai, nanti bila dia dh tak kenan, dia bole kick kau macam bola”
Trust me, dapat pasangan yg bertimbang rasa & consider everything tu mmg penting utk mental health kita. Sebelum buat/ cakap pape dia akan fikir dulu. Adakah kita akan tersakiti dgn tindakan dia? If yes, dia tak sampai hati nak lukakan hati kita.
Cari pasangan yg mcm ni. Ok 😊
Sebenarnya sangat2 tak digalakkan utk bawak isteri rumah mertua dia (parents suami). Tak silap saya, Ust Asrie pernah sebut yang its either duduk rumah sendiri atau duduk rumah parents isteri, but not parents suami. And my experiences can affirm that it is absolutely true.