people pleasing tendencies will have you repeating toxic cycles that leave you tending to people who give you the bare minimum, when in exchange, you’re giving them your fullest attention. be sure that your kindness is a choice and not a trauma response.
you reserve every right to be selective about the kind of energy you indulge in. you’ve come too far and you’ve worked on yourself for too long to allow anyone who isn’t conducive to you or healthy for you to poison your space. feel no guilt for protecting your peace.
december, spill warmth into parts of me that have turned cold. speak loud enough to silence my fears, but clearly enough to hear my intuition. may i move into new phases with grace, so i can create beautiful gardens from space vacated by what is no longer for me. be bountiful.
your healing truly begins when you decide that you deserve better for yourself. setting that early intention is your way of telling the universe that you are open to receiving all the necessary tools and lessons that will help you return back to you.
be kind to the parts of you that are still learning what your own love language is. there are boundaries that you may have left unenforced because you’re still trying to find the words to say that your wounds exist, but that you are still deserving of softness in spite of it.
some people never learn and it’s not up to you to remind them of duties that do not belong to you. if you’ve done all you can and your bones no longer have the strength to support what isn’t yours, it’s okay to detach from situations where they have no desire to help themselves.
Party support in the City of Tshwane with 93% VDs declared, the ANC has 33.82%, DA has 32.81% and the EFF has 10.62% #LGE2021#SADecides2021#ElectionResults2021 (Source: IEC)
Party support in the City of Cape Town with 79% VDs declared, the DA has 59.77%, DA has 17.37% and GOOD has 3.98% #LGE2021#SADecides2021#ElectionResults2021 (Source: IEC)
Party support in Nelson Mandela Bay with 100% VDs declared, the DA has 39.92%, ANC has 39.43% and the EFF has 6.4% #LGE2021#SADecides2021#ElectionResults2021 (Source: IEC)
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november, pour warmth into spaces within me that feel unworthy. fill the room vacated by what isn’t for me with something that deserves to stay. let everything that reaches its expiration date be a reminder of how love for myself should always remain priority. quench my spirit.