Deferring commitment until you are fully healed is near enough impossible – because healing never stops. It continues in a relationship, for as long as both people are invested in their growth; individually and collectively.
When someone doesn't respect your time, you 100% need to communicate why and how that can be changed moving forward. Set those boundaries right away. Wasted time is wasted energy and opportunity.
Discipline is self-love.
Discipline is actively choosing your future by saying no to temptations and opportunities that don’t align with your future at this moment. It’s saying yes to what will serve, grow and nourish you. Discipline is a primary key to self-love.
To be raised by a devoted parent who showered me with nothing but unconditional love, in this realm, is the greatest gift I’ve ever received from The Most High. I Give Thanks. Any attempt made to destroy the love within, fails. I’m embedded. Love is all I know.
Instead of telling people that they shouldn’t feel a certain way, try understanding why they feel that way. Don’t invalidate how THEY feel because YOU don’t agree with it. You can learn so much about other people and inspire compassion if you’re willing to listen.
"Until y’all give me something to offer [them] that’s not steeped in white supremacy, turmoil, agony and death," Black children need joy, rest and bliss, Elika Bernard writes.
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i’m the type of person who needs to spend time alone at least a few hours of the day to just calm down from a day of interacting with multiple energies.