Jaslynn ❤️️

29 | Puertorriquena | Abel Lucas & Greyson Cole Pastore 💙 | Zak 💋

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

Hi the love of my life just proposed to me in front of the castle at Disney and IM FUCKING SOBBBBBBINGGGGKSOSK KSNCNDU.

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

To heal the lost child needs to:
- understand their role is to not have zero needs in relationships
- learn how to assert and express themselves
- understand they are not a burden
- set clear boundaries
- get to know who they actually are

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

As an adult the lost child might:
- struggle with communication (never learned proper socialization)
- be extremely conflict avoidant
- deny what they feel "I'm fine" (a pattern that kept them safe in childhood)
- stay small, invisible

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

If you were the 'lost child' you were easy and quiet.

You learned to just blend in and cause no issues.

Here's Why:

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

Another healing my inner child moment- my husband being off from work, both of us going to the store to get Abels classroom snacks for Halloween and dropping them off at his school 😭💞

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

My inner child healed just a little more watching my husband give our oldest son money for the book fair at school knowing I was never able to get anything 🥺

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

We learned it was easier to “go along with” things even if they were hurtful or we didn’t want to do them.

Fawning also allows us to be liked— we seem easy, agreeable, & “low maintenance.”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Fawning is a trauma response where we people please to avoid conflict, abandonment, or rejection.

When we fawn, we are trying to stay safe.

Many of us grew up in unsafe or unpredictable homes where we had to appease others.

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

Signing up for parent-teacher conferences for Abel just made me feel old as shit lmaooo

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

Our boy finally went on the bus 😭🥺

[chia @otherchia]

Naaa this gotta be racist somehow

[ɪ ᴀᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ᴋᴀʏᴛʀᴀɴᴀᴅᴀ @chaclobro]

This list got me HOLLERING

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

*driving to our destination*
Abel: "mom, dad, play bad bunny please I really love bad bunny please play bad bunny"
🤦‍♀️😂

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

Daycares literally want you to provide everything(diapers,wipes,clothes, packed lunches,extras,etc)& label everything for your child while charging you one of your organs for your kid to just be there. Then people wonder why SAHPs are a thing & make living off one income possible

[emily @emilyuribe]

taking my first sip of my pumpkin cream cold brew is the equivalent of iron man putting his suit on I’m so serious

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

I blinked and we officially have a Kindergartener tomorrow 🥺🥺🥺

[Jaslynn ❤️️ @Siimple_life]

The fact that a tiny little thing of vanilla extract is SEVEN DOLLARS for the store brand but 6 months ago it was $3 is absolutely mind-blowing to me