I hope every woman ends up with someone who spoils her; but especially first born daughters. You give so much to everyone else… May you find yourself with someone who gives a lot to you ♥️
I want anniversaries . I want someone to look at me and can’t imagine life without me. I want unconditional love. I want healthy communication. I want the fireworks that never die. Butterflies even after we’re months/years in. I want year(s) with someone.
y’all have no respect for the ppl who make your life easier. the person making your morning coffee deserves a livable wage. the person stocking the groceries you buy deserves a livable wage. the person cleaning the restrooms in the office you work at deserves a livable wage.
I'll never forget Michelle Obama saying we need to "plan our joy" in an interview with Oprah. I'm so intentional about planning dates with friends, self care appointments, fitness classes, and trips now. I always have something to look forward to. Keeps me excited about life.
Some things I’ve noticed about the people I know who seem happy and fulfilled:
- They are open to taking risks
- They’re optimistic about outcomes
- Even when things go wrong, they look for a lesson or silver lining
- They are selective about the company they keep
Romance is a must for me. Thoughtfulness in general is important but I also love a thoughtfulness that sits outside everyday routine. Thrill me, surprise me, make me feel extra special. Healthy relationships without romance might exist, but that’s not for me. I want it all.