You’re single. Not by choice, not on purpose. Not proudly single. Not shamefully single. Just… single.
And maybe it’s not entirely by choice. But because you haven’t felt anything deep enough to stay, or even get into one, lately.
I pray you have friends that can discern when the devil is being funny, and will stand in the gap for your sake.
I pray you have friends that see clearly.
Nigerians would watch Americans on Tiktok braiding for $200, open their own salon in Lekki & be like,
Knotless braids - N72k! Appointments only!
One month after reality would hit and they’ll say,
"We now accept walk-ins, take advantage of our 80% discount on knotless braids."
Abroad is dry Asf! It’s nothing like Nigeria. All you do is work and struggle to pay tax until 5-10 years if they give you PR.
Dfkm, there’s no place like home. You’ll see Asians come to study abroad for 1 years and they’re going back home. That’s the life we should have !
Affirm
Lack of money and opportunities expires in my life today. I welcome financial opportunities like new jobs, new businesses, more clients, and helpers.
One part of adulthood that I was never prepared for was changing friendship dynamics. Like some of the people you thought would be there forever just fizzle out sometimes. No bad blood or anything. Just evaporation.
I’m so obsessed with financial security. I don’t even need money because I want to buy anything. I just want to feel secure knowing I have money lying there for me.