My heart aches for everyone that has lost a parent unexpectedly. There’s never a right time to lose a parent but it’s worse when you don’t see it coming. And every single time I see a post here of someone losing their parent, I just pray that the person is enveloped with love.
Yoruba culture is quite similar to Ghanaian culture in the sense that when someone dies at a “good age” (80+) it’s seen as a celebration of life. People are so quick to judge without understanding cultural nuances.
@NessaDeex Sorry sis. hate when people say ‘don’t cry’ or ‘stay strong’, you have every reason on this earth to cry and express your emotions in which ever way you want to . The fact that you are still alive is strength already in itself. I hate society’s concept of what ‘strength’ is .
@NessaDeex ❤️❤️sending you love sis , I hope you know that there are people who can relate and will be more than willing to listen to you ,Your feelings are valid xx
@NessaDeex 😩Can imagine the amount of shock and confusion you are in , May God guide you and comfort you through this journey. Please continue to speak out sis ❤️ this is heart wrenching . May their souls rest in peace and I pray that you feel their love and guidance spiritually❤️❤️
@NessaDeex Sending you love sis . Grieving is so hard the amount of people that lack empathy is sickening ! , Sadly until it’s them that’s when they will understand how hard and heart wrenching grieving is . You have been so resilient and so inspirational!
Chioma’s frustration is valid .Many Nigerians have such unrealistic expectations and in the name of ‘respect’ and ‘senior’ you should just sit there and accept fuckery ? Nooooo !😭#bluetherapy